How do I get him to spend more time with me?

Michaelle Asks . . .

“I just downloaded the “3 Magic Texts” and thought I would send my biggest challenge…
Getting my husband to spend quality time with me and our children. 
Thank you for the information…after the first text, I don’t think a second passed before my husband responded! :)”

Hi Michelle,

Glad you’re having such luck with the 3 Magic texts. Have you tried the material in the main Text The Romance Back manual? It’s much juicier.

On to your question:

Men are like dogs, we like to be rewarded for good behavior.

I don’t know what your husband is spending all his time doing, but you need to make sure you give him positive reinforcement every time he does something you actually like. And set up “reward” systems to thank him for cutting time out of his busy schedule.

So tell him that if he spends a few hours watching a movie with you and the kids, he’ll get (WHATEVER HE REALLY LIKES) in return.

It’s base and manipulative, but it works.

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5 Responses to How do I get him to spend more time with me?

  1. vicky says:

    how do i get this romance back manual?

  2. susan says:

    my husband cheated on me by sexting another woman…what can you do for me to save our marriage because i have a wall built up? how can texting him make him change?

    • Sarah says:

      Susan, I can empathize with your situation…I am in the same boat. I am working on getting past the affair (physical or not, it is an adulterous affair), and I am learning to do things differently to try and fan the fire. Sadly, when I text him, his responses to me are very chaste. He will not engage with me in sexting. I guess either I am not doing it the way he likes it, or he is missing his other partner…it went on for months before I caught them. Best of luck to you…I know it is intensely painful, and I hope that you, and I, will one day feel better. Right now I feel as if it will kill me.

  3. Khadijah says:

    Am there to… I don’t know what Mike will say about it all (hope he posts something ;-) ) but i think the best thing for you right now is to stop pursuing your husband and appearing jealous or what… take your own space, i know it sounds like you have to do the opposite but when an affair is full flung thats the only thing that could save YOU.. build your self confidence, stop depending emotionally on him, it will ruin you, and he’ll keep take you for granted.. hope that kinda help..beleieve me…am in same boat to ;-) think abt it that way: you’ve already “lost” him, think about YOU now… and think that way always till you die, he’ll come bak, i promise

  4. teena says:

    I to am dealing with my husbands distance. He wont even say i love you to me anymore. I believe he is cheating but cant catch him. he gives the excuses its me not you lines . 20 Yrs of marriage and im trying it all nothing seems to work in my favor. I think we woman should form a group and talk about finding the whole source and recovery method. its do or die trying lol . good luck to us all and pray we all have enough in us to move on either way it goes.

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