Hey, its Mike Fiore . . .
And in today’s post I want to talk about “Dirty Texting Ideas”. . . how to create amazing levels of passion, lust and desire in any man or woman you want, just by pushing a few buttons on your cell phone.
“Hey, Mike. I love your newsletter and your ‘Text The Romance Back’ program, but I want to get DIRTIER. Can you show me how to use dirty text messages to turn my man on so he can’t stop thinking about me and so he ravages me as soon as he gets home?”
Thanks for your question, it’s one I get a LOT.
And uh . . . yeah, of course I can =-) It’s kind of my job.
(Quick Caveat: To really answer this question properly I have to get a little dirty in this article. Hope you don’t mind.)
The key with “Dirty Texting” (whether you’re texting a man or a woman) is to use the right words and the right language to engage your partner’s imagination and to make them feel like they had a highly charged “Dirty” experience with you, even if they’re miles (or hundreds of miles away.)
One of the big mistakes people make with Dirty Texting (especially guys) is to go right for “vulgar” without any build up or anticipation.
But the right way to do a “Dirty Text” is to use tension and anticipation to build up and tease your partner . . .
And to use the “Power Words” of “Feel” and “Imagine” to basically hijack the sexual center of their brain.
Here’s how you actually do it . . .
1. Send a “Curiosity Magnet” text like I show you in both “Text The Romance Back” and “Text Your Wife Into Bed” . . .
This is just a simple “hook” to get the man or woman you’re interested in to pay attention to you.
2. Quickly establish a sexual context to the conversation . . .
3. Take control and narrate your partner’s experience for them (this is important. Often times the worst thing you can do is expect a back and forth over text from your partner. You want to be 100% in the driver’s seat here.)
4. Use an “Anticipation Builder” to turn your “Dirty Text” into a self fulfilling prophesy.
Here’s an example:
Let’s say we have Jim and Linda, they’ve been together for a while, but thanks to kids, jobs and all that they don’t have enough time together as they’d like.
JIm decides he wants to really get Linda’s motor running, so here’s what he does . . .
Jim: (out of nowhere): I can’t stop thinking about . . .
Linda: About what (If Linda doesn’t respond, Jim should just keep going anyway.)
Jim: Your ass when you stepped out of the shower this morning. It’s all I could do not to drag you back into bed with me. (Notice how Jim quickly makes this a sexual conversation. You need to strike fast.)
Linda: Oh really? =-)
Jim: Really. You have no idea how fucking beautiful you are . . . I wish I was there with you right now. Watching you in your little work skirt. Just imagine how it would feel seeing me walk into your office, this hunger all across my face. I lock the door behind me, you feel your heart beating like a jackrabbit. I walk around behind your desk. You feel my lips on your neck. This heat building in your body. Your hips push back against me . . .
Linda: Mmmm. That would be nice.
From there, Jim continues to “narrate the scene” in the present tense to give Linda a really nice ride (I’m not going to get super explicit here, but you get the idea.)
Then he finishes off with something simple like . ..
Jim: Can’t wait to see you tonight . . . =-)
5 Quick Dirty Texting Ideas
Feel free to try these yourself:
“You have no idea how much you turn me on. Just the smell of you makes my whole body shake.”
“Try not to think about (something you know he or she loves sexually.)
The “Last Night” – “I can’t stop thinking about last night . . . the way you tasted. The way you made me feel.”
“If you were here right now . . .” (talk about what you would do if they were there right now.)
“When you get home tonight I want you to . . .” (Explicitly lay out what you want them to do.)
Remember, have fun with this. And the sky is really the limit.
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