I have two very different but equally important questions for you today. We’ll start with something more serious and then get into the romance…

Sandy asks:

Hi, I’m Sandy. Well my question is that my boyfriend is very possessive and narrow minded. He doesn’t like me speaking to anybody and it’s really annoying. What can I do to make him change? I have told him many a time that I want him to change, but he says he always ends up failing. Kindly help.

Well Sandy, thanks for your question.

I have a couple of things to say about this.

That level of possessiveness, getting mad when you talk to other people and I’m assuming you mean guys, but it could be he gets this way when you talk to everyone, is a MAJOR red flag in a relationship.
A little bit of “positive jealousy” is fine and I personally get a little bit “alpha” when my girlfriend talks to a guy at a party, but if it gets to the point that he’s actually getting angry when you talk to somebody else you need to be really careful. Especially if he is calling you names or otherwise blaming you for it.
Your line about “he says he always ends up failing” really concerns me too. This isn’t something he should be let off the hook for.

Here’s my advice:

Tell him flat out that his possessive behavior is unacceptable and is a deal breaker. Put him on notice that if he wants to be with you he needs to go see somebody and work through whatever insecurity is driving it.

And if he’s not willing to do that, walk away.

I know that sounds harsh, but “possessive” guys can become “abusive” guys in a hurry.

Okay, enough of that, let’s talk about some actual romance…

Dear Michael,
Your text massage tip really worked for my boyfriend. So thanks a lot.
Just want to know from you how to attract him more and more towards me.
Also have got a question. A few days later he’ll be coming to my house to meet
me. Though three will be other people present in my house but we’ll be able
to spend time in a separate room for an hour…so How can I manage for a sexy,
romantic quickie with a little bit of foreplay with my boyfriend?
–Madhumita

Madhumita,
I’m so glad you tried out the “Text Massage”. I love that technique and I’ve never heard of a guy who didn’t absolutely melt when a woman used it on her man. For those who don’t know, it’s a texting technique that makes him eel like your hands are on him not matter how far away you are =-)

On to your situation:

This is great situation to whip out what I call “Private Wishpers” texts.

“Private Whispers” are texts you use when you and your man are in the same room but can’t talk or flirty openly. So while you’re all in the house prepping dinner, you send him a message that says..

Stop it =-)

When he gets the text, he’ll look at you across the room. Give him a little smile

He’ll say: Stop what?

You follow with: Teasing me =-)

And then slowly raise the heat so by the time you finally DO have a few minutes together you’re both feeling incredibly “romantic” and are ready to go.

I go into a LOT more detail on “Private Whispers” in my Text the Romance Back Program.

Interested?

To learn more check out my Text the Romance Back video

or

Grab yourself a copy of Text the Romance Back right now!

Here is a weird story that might hit a little close to home…

A while back I was sitting around with two married friends of mine and we were talking about the staggering difference in their love lives. One of my friends, let’s call him John, was the perfect “Romantic” husband. He bought flowers, sprung for expensive jewelry, took his wife out to shows, told his wife ho much he loved her. Basically he did everything he was “supposed to do” to have the “perfect marriage”. And while everything on the outside was perfect, on the inside John was a frustrated wreck.

Because even after all that, John’s wife only “let him” have sex with her a few times a year.

On the other hand there was my friend Bob. Bob was the complete opposite of John. I’m not saying Bob was a “bad” husband. He was absolutely in love with his wife, but he wasn’t what you would call “chivalrous”. But even though Bob never did the flowers thing, never bought jewelry and would regularly forget to put the toilet seat down, he and his wife and amazing, passionate sex pretty much every night.

Actually, Bob told me that it had gotten to the point that he’d had to start turning his wife down sometimes, because he couldn’t quite keep up.

So why did John have such a lousy love life even though he did everything “right” while Bob had the love life we all dream of even though he did everything wrong?

Now, some of the difference might have to dow ith a difference in the natural sex drives of their two wives, although in my experience that’s the case a lot less often than you would think. But it really all comes down to the difference between GRATITUDE and LUST.

Here’s what I mean. Your wife might OCCASIONALLY have sex with you because she feels grateful for some flowers or for a gift, or because she feels like she “should”. But she’ll only ENJOY it, look forward to it, even BEG for it if you learn how to turn her on. And that’s really the difference between Bob and John. While John was making a mistake a lot of guys make by trying to “earn” his wife’s affection by doing everything he “should”.

Bob understood a simple secret. To turn your wife on and to get her to WANT to have sex with you, to get her to do just about anything to be with you, you’ve got to do three things

1. “Awaken” her sexuality by drawing her attention to it.
2. Make her feel truly, undeniably attractive.
3. Give her PERMISSION to act on her desires.

And you’ll NEVER do that with flowers.

Of course I cover this a lot more in the Text Your Wife Into Bed Program, and flat out GIVE YOU a bunch of “done for you” texts that accomplish all three these goals in shockingly little time.

I love hearing about successes with the program and this is one I had to share!

“G” says

Mike, I watched your video 2 days ago. I am not a “paid” subscriber, but I will be after today! I wanted to send you a copy of my text messages today to my wife. These are the actual text messages from today, the second day after watching your video for the first time. Please be aware that I used the “I can’t stop thinking about…” once yesterday:

Wife: Lunch @ Roasties?
Me: In an all-day meeting…sorry sweetie
Wife: Ok
Me: (about 15 minutes later) I can’t stop thinking about…
Wife: What?
Me: Taking you to dinner tonight
Wife: Really? Why? On a FRIDAY NITE??
Me: Any chance I can get to spend time with you and stare into those gorgeous eyes I’ll take.
Wife: What’s up with you lately?? I think I like it…

Those are the actual text messages from today. I got the biggest grin after that last text. She’s been incredibly and loving all night…”

Thanks for sending this G. What I really like about it is how you used the “3 Magic Texts” formal and totally adapted it to your own relationship and your wife’s best assets and attitudes. Sometimes I get emails from guys saying the 3 Magic Texts didn’t work for them. And when I get those emails and find out what they sent, it’s usually because the guy involved didn’t take the time to really figure out how his woman’s mind works, what she REALLY wants and how to give it to her.

In the main Text Your Wife Into Bed product I go into a lot more detail on how to do that, but I’m always so impressed when a guy like you takes the initiative.

I want to talk about a hot button issue in any relationship…cheating.

Geoff asks:

I cheated on my wife and I don’t think anything will get me back
to her from her position right now. she loves me but I did her wrong.
You think texting will fix that? If so then I will buy it. But if it does not
work I want my money back.

Hey Geoff, thanks for your email. I’ve got good news and I’ve got bad news.

The good news is that it’s totally possible to use the Text Your Wife Into Bed material to help rebuild intimacy and rampant naughtiness with your wife even after a betrayal like cheating on her.

The bad news is that, depending on what your relationship is like and how your wife is feeling, there’s no guarantee it will work in your particular case (I don’t know the details of your case) and even if it does, it’s going to take you a LONG time.

Cheating is a funny thing, actually. If you do any reading on how human’s evolved and the massive cultural shift that went on about 10,000 years ago when we went from begin nomadic hunters and gatherers to being “property” obsessed farmers, you realize that we simply aren’t evolved or “designed” for monogamy.

Human beings crave variety on a deep primal level, and trying to deny that, trying to convoke ourselves that it’s easy and natural to be with just one person sexually and emotionally for our entire lives is responsible for more vicious fights and divorces than anything else in this world.

Now, I’m not saying you SHOULD cheat on your spouse. I am not letting you off the hook for doing so because if you make a promise you should keep it. But I am saying that slipping up the way you did doesn’t make you a horrible person. It doesn’t mean you should be hung out to dry for the rest of your life. It also doesn’t mean you don’t love your wife in a very real and deep way.

One of the hardest things for a woman to understand is that when a man cheats it really has nothing to do with her. Typically men cheat on their spouses or girlfriends for a very simple reason: we get turned on, we have an opportunity and we don’t have the willpower to say no. In fact, studies have shown that the majority of men who cheat on their wives actually report being HAPPY in their marriages.

Women, however, tend to cheat for emotional reasons. They aren’t getting the attention, sexual or otherwise, they crave from their man, get hit on by an attractive, powerful man and give in as a way of getting revenge or finding a way to feel wanted. Sometimes women do cheat for the purely physical reasons men do, but it’s more rare.

The problem is that right now your wife feels betrayed. She probably feels horribly unattractive thinking “If he wants to be with someone else it must be because there is something wrong with me”. She may even be disgusted at the thought of being with you physically.

That means that if you try to use the “dirtier” stuff in the Text Your Wife Into Bed system on your wife right now, it could very well backfire. The key in your case is to use texts and notes and actual honest-to-god conversation, to let your wife know that you care about her, find her attractive, and love her and that your cheating wasn’t about her at all. It wasn’t something you “did to her”, it was simply something you did that you regret and that you would take back if you could.

So, should you get Text Your Wife Into Bed?

I’d say yes but with the caveat that you’ll need to adjust a lot of the material to be more PG. You need to focus on emotional language, reminding your wife of the good times you’ve had together, letting her feel safe and wanted and rebuilding trust. Only then can you really dip into the dirty stuff that gets right into her primal mind. And of course, your purchase is backed up by my “no wiggle room, no questions asked” 60 day money back guarantee.

I also recommend that you check out “Save My Marriage Today” . This is an excellent program that will guide you through steps you need to take to rebuild trust in your relationship and put your marriage back on solid group, no matter how bad things might seem now. I give this program my full endorsement.

I just got this question from Joe and I knew it was something I had to talk to you guys about.

Joe asks:

Mike, thanks so much for your emails. I’m really hoping you can help me.
I’m 34, have a wonderful girlfriend but it seems like lately…
Well, I just can’t seem to get it up when we go to bed together.
My girlfriend says it’s OK, but I can tell she’s disappointed and I just feel
ashamed that I can’t please her like a man should.
I’m thinking about getting some Viagra or something, but I’m only 35
…what should I do?

Joe, I feel for you.

Most guys don’t talk about it, but fear of being impotent ranks right up there for most guys with the fear of being mauled by a tiger in the woods as the worst thing that could happen to you. The good news is there’s probably nothing physically wrong with you at all.

Despite what the big pharmaceutical companies would have you believe most of the time “failure to perform” is much more a psychological issue than it is a physical one.

Why can’t you “get ready to perform” with your girlfriend? It’s probably stress, or a fight you had, or some doubts you had about the relationship, or a laundry list of other things. But it’s not because you’re “not a man” or because there is something “wrong with you”.

I should know, I used to have this exact same problem myself, and just like all guys it occasionally sneaks up on me again. A few years back I found myself in bed with this absolutely gorgeous 5’10″ sing language interpreter (my god, the hands on that girl). We made out like teenagers. She pulled off my pants with this naughty smile across her lips and then she got this wounded look on her face. Because even though she was the sexiest thing on two knees I’d ever seen I was soft and pliable as a sun baked twirler.

It’s pretty easy to freak out about this sort of thing and I know I did all the time. But since then I’ve learned a couple of “tricks” to make the “soft serve” fairy run for the hills.

1. Next time you and your woman are getting g”intimate” take “penetration” off the table completely. Seriously. Just take the idea of having sex right off the table and focus on making out, touching her, making her feel good etc. They call it “performance anxiety” for a reason, and if you know you’re not going to be expected to perform you might be shocked and what happens in your pants. And your girlfriend will probably be shocked at how good in bed you become when you stop thinking with your dick.

2. Check out this program by Dr. Joe Block and Dr. Laurie Baubach.

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This 2 CD program uses hypnosis to help you get by any emotional or mental blocks that might be causing you to have problems “performing” with women. You’ll notice they don’t try to “sell” you very hard on this page. That’s because they don’t have to. Dr. Block and Dr. Baubach are the real deal and have years of clinical research backing up everything they do. Plus their program comes with a full year guarantee. Please do yourself a favor and check out what they have to offer before you even consider using drugs.

I’ve been through the program myself and can’t speak highly enough about it.

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Recently I am getting a lot of emails like this one…

JJ asks:

“Hey Mike, love your emails.

Can you give me an example of a text to send to
a girl you just met? It’s a whole different game, right?”

And Andy asks . . .

“Mike, I wanted to know if this also works on
girlfriends or girls you’re planning on dating.”

Thanks for the emails guys. Your questions about this working on single girls is right up there with “Michael, can you give me something to use on my husband?” as the most common questions I get.

So let’s just dive in!

Does this work on single girls? If anything, the core techniques behind Text Your Wife Into Bed work even BETTER on single girls and girls you are just “dating”. The reason is that with a woman you’re just dating or just met you don’t have as much built up “cruft” around your relationship. She doesn’t have a set idea of who you are or what to expect from you so you don’t have to overcome as much when you start sending her fun, sexy, flirty texts. But don’t worry husbands, I teach you married guys exactly how to get over this in the program, and it’s really not that hard.

That said, the actual “tactics” for texting a woman you don’t know very well aren’t terribly different than what you do with a woman you are married to.

Let’s break this down by “category” of relationship.

Category 1: Married. Use Text Your Wife Into Bed as delivered. It was made for you.

Category 2: Not Married but in a Long Term Relationship. Use Text Your Wife Into Bed as delivered, you’re functionally married anyway.

Category 3: Just Dating. This is for a girl who knows you, who you’ve been dating for a few months and who you have an exclusive or semi-exclusive relationship with. Again in this case you an really use Text Your Wife Into Bed as it’s delivered. Since you already have a relationship with the girl in question everything I teach in the main program should work very well.

Category 4: Just Met This Girl. And finally we get to the “Single guy on the prowl” category. I also call this the “Barista” category because one of my members once wrote me to say he used what I’m about to teach you on a cute Barista at a Starbucks and had her naked and eager exactly 2 days later!

How to use Text Your Wife Into Bed with Single Girls…..excuse me while I reminisce about my single days for a minute and all the fun I had sending dirty texts to the amazing women I met…Okay…done.

Here’s a couple key things you need to remember when using the Text Your Wife Into Bed method with a woman you don’t know:
1. Since you don’t have an existing relationship with her, there’s no expectation of how you should act or what’s “normal” for you. That frees you put to create a “text persona” she won’t be able to resist instead of having to push back against how you’ve been treating her up to now.

2. With single girls you’ve got a great opportunity to be BOLD in your communication. The key is to come across in your initial texts as a guy who’s fun, flirty, dominant (in a non creepy way) and who’s going to show her a really good time.

Step by step here’s what to do:

1. Meet the girl (I’m assuming you can handle this part)

2. Get her cell number. Quick note: Don’t trick her into giving you her number. Just confidently ask for it. You could even say “Give me your cell number. I want to send you something cool.”

3. After you get her number send her a fun and confident message. Something along the lines of…

You: Here’s my number. Try to control yourself, ok? =-)

or

You: Here’s my number. Don’t give it to anybody, ok?

The idea here is that you’re basically assuming that she has interest in YOU as opposed to coming across as needy.

4. If things got physical in some way the night you got her number, if you made out with the girl or things otherwise got hot and heavy the night you met/got her number.

Okay this is fun. If things got physical with the girl the night you got her number, your job is to use text messages to make sure that experience really “sinks in” for her. You want HER to go to bed obsessing about you and wondering when she’s going to get to see you again. We use the same basic concepts from Text Your Wife Into Bed, but with some alterations.

So, soon after you say good night…

You: I’ve still got the taste of you on my lips….it’s delicious =-)

Obviously there’s a lot of variations you can do here, but the key is to let her know how much you enjoyed the experience and to let her know that she turns you on. WARNING: Do Not overdo it here. If you ever come across as needy or obsessed, you’ll really “screw the pooch.” Instead you need to be appreciative but confident. You enjoyed the experience, you’re thinking about her, but you’re still in control.

4B. If things stayed totally PG when you got her number, it’s a completely different game. NOTE: It’s important that you establish a flirty and even sexual rapport over text with her as quickly as possible. If you let things get “formal” with a girl over text it’s much harder to pull them back to the fun, sexy kind of conversation we’re going for. It’s also important that you maintain CONTROL of the conversation over text. A big mistake a lot of guys make is sending texts like…

Hey, what’s up?

To a girl, I call that a “nothing” text because it has a tendency NOT to get answered and even if it does get answered the answer is typically “Oh, nothing”

NOT what we’re going for…

Instead you want to send her messages that are fun, flirty and throw her a bit off balance. You want the girl you’re flirting with to feel like she never quite knows what she’s going to get from you. You can open with with the “Pivot” texts I give you in Text Your Wife Into Bed or you can use a “Door Opener” text designed to interrupt her day, draw her attention and get her thinking about you. For instance, in this example let’s assume you met this girl at a friend’s party the night before. You sent her your number over text after meeting her. It’s around 10am on a weekday…

You: Quick Question…=-)
You: If you could be ANYWHERE right now and be doing ANYTHING where and what would it be?

Note how this isn’t sexual at all. The key at this point is to start having fun with her. If she doesn’t respond, just let it go and come back fishing later. If she does respond, use the opportunity to find out more about her. It’s good fantasy fodder for later! If she says she wants to be on the beach in Mexico you can USE that and then SLOWLY start pursuing the conversation to more sensual places. For instance, once you have a good back and forth going…

You: Mmmm
Her: Huh?
You: Oh, just thinking about…well, I shouldn’t tell you =-)
Her: About what
You: About your lips…
Her: What about them?

Etc.

And then you go into some of the more sensual Text Your Wife Into Bed Material.

This question HAS to be answered…

Beth says…

“I love your responses and I plan to get your program.  My guy is…different.
 
And I don’t know exactly why…..he keeps distant quite a bit and to be honest, 
his communication sucks.  I tried the “I can’t stop thinking about…” 
 text …not a single response…typical really.  I’ve asked if he’s connected
 to someone else emotionally and he says no.  (ie: past love, ex, etc)  
I’ve broke it off completely a couple times (with his encouragement, actually)
 (ie: he says “I want to go and do stuff together still but just as friends” and I 
say “I can’t do that..sorry…I have feelings and apparently you don’t and I can’t 
be just “friends” so best wishes and I will miss you but we are completely done”)
 and next thing I know, 3 weeks later, he’s needing help for something, I help
 him out and then he asks me out (we go only as friends, no “benefits”), he asks
 me out again THEN cancels! (Same S*** different date) I tell him we are DONE 
and 3 weeks later, same thing again, only sometimes with “benefits”. 
 
 My heart is a wreck.  It’s almost like he really does want me but he is scared.  I am not 
clingy or bothersome…..we are both very busy….I can’t figure him out.
Its been almost a year since we started dating….the “friend thing” popped 
up in February and been dealing with that ever since.  I guess I just keep on
 hoping.  When we are together we have a blast and he’s told me I’m amazing..
.I just don’t get it.  I have told him how I feel including just going out and being
 ”friends” wouldn’t make my feelings go away but yet he continues to seek some 
attention.  Without a doubt..he’s adult ADD to the max.  He has insecurities about 
his weight/looks.  (I think he is ADORABLE)
 
BTW…we were good friends 20 years ago when we worked together….
 
Should I just dump him and never reply to his  texts/calls again?
 
Beth”
 

Beth, thanks for the email, but, prepare yourself because my advice is going to be pretty blunt.

Walk Away.

I don’t know your guy well enough to know if he’s purposely manipulative or just kind of dumb when it comes to emotions; most guys aren’t assholes as much as they just aren’t in touch with their feelings in any way.

But no matter what, you’ve got to nip all these “give and take” games in the bud. Break things off 100%. Don’t say you’re “just going to be friends”, don’t let him think he can still rely on you emotionally. Tell him flat out that you’re not interested in him as a friend.

And this time, stick to your guns! If he calls you up asking for help with something either don’t respond at all or just tell him you can’t and that you’re busy. And get out there and start dating other people! Jealousy has great way of focusing a man on what he really wants =-)

Quick Story:

A married couple walks into a therapist’s office for their first session. Let’s call them Bob and Carol.

They’re in the mid-50′s, they have been married for 25 years, and they have a couple of kids who are in college.

And it really seems like Bob hates Carol.

See, as soon as they sit down on the couch Bob gets fire in his eyes and starts complaining about Carol. “She’s gotten fat,” he snarls, ignoring his own beer gut. “She needs to get a better job and make more money,” he says while stomping his cheap shoes on the carpet. “She needs to be nicer. She needs to put more time into her appearance. She needs to be more adventurous in bed. She needs to be better, better better!”

He goes on for 15 minutes. His face gets red and puffy. He barely takes a breathe. And the whole time Carol just sits there with her hands folded in her lap. She’s still as frightened as a bird. She doesn’t say a thing.

Finally Bob winds down and they both look at the therapist expectantly. The therapist is new. It’s one of his first cases. His palms start sweating. He has no idea what to say. And then finally, after what feels like an hour he says, “Bob, if Carol was this amazing, astonishing woman who had the body of Claudia Schiffer and the brains of Albert Einstein and the bank account of Bill Gates, if she was the perfect lover, the perfect wife, the perfect mom, the perfect woman, if she was EVERYTHING you’ve been ranting about, if she was 110% amazing, then what the HELL would she want with a schlub like you?”

Silence.

Bob blanches white. His jaw drops.

Carol falls to the floor laughing like a maniac.

And the doctor thinks he might just be on to something.

Okay, so why am I telling you this story? For a couple reasons, actually. First off because I think it’s an awesome story! The above is a paraphrased-from-memory version of a story pin Dr. Frederic Luskin’s book “Forgive For Love”. You should check it out.
Secondly, I get emails every day from men and women talking about how much happier they’d be if their spouse or the man/woman in their life would just CHANGE. But you know what? At a certain point, people really do stop changing. In fact, after 30 or so we just keep becoming more and more who we already are. So before you start ranting and raving about what you DEMAND from your partner, you may want to take a quick look at yourself.

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I recently got an email that is absolutely heartbreaking…

Charlene asks
“Hi there,
Just saw your Rachel Ray video & read your ’3 Magic Texts’.  
Before I send him this kind of text, want to say that this is a
man that I have been married to for 37 years, he has changed
 for the worse in the past 10 yrs.  Hoping & believing that as 
we had had our ups & downs throughout the years that we would
 climb back up to where we needed to be…….  that did not happen.
  It’s like our marriage has been dead for so long, I can’t remember 
when it had any life to it….
 
He has stated that he wants a divorce, does not want to
 ’work’ on our marriage, does not want to go to counseling.
  We live in Plano,Tx, he is now living & working in Denver, Co.  
Divorce had been filed in December by me as I have been worn 
down emotionally, verbally & physically.  He agreed that this is 
what he wanted, but here is the stickler….. he has refused to 
‘sign’ the final decree of divorce.
 
My biggest challenge question to you is, How or what type 
of text could I possibly send that would begin to chip away 
his coldness & indifference to me without sounding fake?  
And yes I would love to be reconnected to the man that
 I once fell in love with, but at the same time wonder if 
there is anything that I can do to help change him back 
to who & what he once was……  a loving & caring husband.
 
I appreciate any & all of your help.”
 
Charlene

Thanks for your email. I wish it was the only kind of email of this sort that I got, but that’s not the case. In fact, my inbox is generally flooded with messages from women just like you who can’t understand why their men “turned off” and are looking for anything to get the man they fell in love with back in their lives.

As a guy I know what it’s like to “emotionally seize up” like that, but I also know that it’s brutal on a woman. When I was first reading your email it really did sound like he was completely detached emotionally, but the fact that he refuses to sign the final order is interesting. It could be an indicator the there’s still hope.

Here’s my advice: As far as what texts to send, your best shot is going to be to use what I call “The Relationship Time Machine”. “The Relationship Time Machine” is a text formula I created that let’s you bring your man back to a better and more romantic time in your relationship by causing him to “re-live” some of the best times you had together. Like the day you got married or the first day you kissed, or a time you were really there for him as a lover or as a friend.

There’s a particular art to the way you create a “relationship time machine” text that I don’t have room to go into here, but I go into great detail and give you a bunch of examples of how to use “The Relationship Time Machine” in the main Text the Romance Back manual.

Text the Romance Back

I just got this great email from a Text Your Wife Into Bed customer and I wanted to share it with you.

Brian says…
Hi Michael,
 
I purchased the TYWIB program and have
read all the material.  I have done the program
through day 4.  During this time period we
had some great sex on both day 2 and day 4. 
As today is day 5, do I continue on with the
text?  (I have already started today anyways.) 
Also, how frequently should texts continue
after the initial 5 day period?
 
Another issue I have is that neither my wife,
or I use texting, we do it by email.  This
tends to be a little slower, but no less
effective as demonstrated by the results. 
One of the problems though is that there
seems to be a little lag between response
times.  Should I send more emails anticipating
that I may only be able to 3-4 emails in during
the day, or just keep to the bantering back and
forth and possibly not get to the “climax”?
 
Thank you for your input on this. 
I am looking forward to implementing
the “oral” program soon.
 

Brian thank you so much for your email and congratulations on your success! I always love hearing from guys who are able to add that SPARK back into they relationships so quickly, even just by using the “basic stuff” from the TYWIB formula.

And GREAT idea using email instead of text messages. Too many times guys get caught up on the “texting” thing, when really the important part is to use the content from TYWIB and deliver it to your wife in a way she’s most open to receiving.

Here are answers to your questions:
1. How often should you email her from now on?
As often as you want to! Since things are going well, I’d recommend you “keep the heat on”for at least the next several days. The key is keep some variety in the messages you’re sending.Dig through the “Black Book” you got with TYWIB for inspiration and focus your messages on revivifying the great experiences you had with your wife on days 2 and 4.

2. How many emails should you send during the day?
This one’s really your call. Since your wife is obviously responding well to the material, you don’t need to stick to the rule of waiting for a response as much as you would otherwise. Feel free to send her longer messages with more sensual detail or to send 2 or even 3 emails in a row that she can go through all at once on her lunch break If you don’t get all the way to the “climax” in your emails, don’t worry about it too much. The key is to maintain rapport, and there’s no reason you can’t “finish the story” when you get home.

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